Native American Code of Ethics | Stillwater Sunset

Native American Code of Ethics was originally published in the Inter-Tribal Times in October 1994.


1. Rise with the sun to pray. Pray alone. Pray often. The Great Spirit will listen if you only speak.

2. Tolerance for those who are lost on their path. Ignorance, conceit, anger, jealousy, and greed stem from a lost soul. Pray that they will find guidance.

3. Search for yourself, by yourself. Do not allow others to make your path for you. It is your road and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.

4. Treat the guests in your home with much consideration. Serve them the best food, give them the best bed and treat them with respect and honor.

5. Do not take what is not yours whether from a person, a community, the wilderness or from a culture. It was not earned nor given. It is not yours.

6. Respect all things that upon this earth – whether it be people or plant.

7. Honor other people’s thoughts, wishes, and words. Never interrupt another or mock or rudely mimic them. Allow each person the right to personal expression.

8. Never speak of others in a bad way. The negative energy that you put out into the universe will multiply when it returns to you.

9. All persons make mistakes. And all mistakes can be forgiven.

10. Bad thoughts cause illness of the mind, body, and spirit. Practice optimism.


11. Nature is not FOR us, it is a PART of us.

12. Children are the seeds of our future. Plant love in their hearts and water them with wisdom and life’s lessons. When they are grown, give them space to grow.

13. Avoid hurting the hearts of others. The poison of your pain will return to you.

14. Be truthful. Honesty is the test of ones will within this universe.

15. Keep yourself balanced. Your Mental self, Spiritual self, Emotional self, and Physical self – all need to be strong, pure and healthy. Work out the body to strengthen the mind. Grow rich in spirit to cure emotional ails.

16. Make conscious decisions about who you will be and how you will react. Be responsible for your own actions.

17. Respect the privacy and personal space of others. Do not touch the personal property of others – especially sacred and religious objects. This is forbidden.

18. Be true to yourself first. You cannot nurture and help others if you cannot nurture and help yourself first.

19. Respect others religious beliefs. Do not force your belief on others.

20. Share your good fortune with others. Participate in charity.


I sat with this sunset a few weeks ago and imagined the Native Americans traveling along this shore on horseback to meet up with my friend’s grandparents to barter and trade just over 100 years ago. It saddens me to think what it must have felt like for Natives to have European immigrants come in and take over an entire continent pushing them off to the side into designated boxes.

Having been taught at a young age “do unto others as you would have done to you.”  I wish early settlers would have embraced the Indigenous culture and wisdom fully as it’s rich in spirit, connection with nature, community, and tradition. Perhaps the original settling Europeans could have done things very differently because what goes around comes around. In an effort to not repeat history I hope to see more indigenous wisdom rise up and trickle through communities across the nation and that people listen.



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